First looks are some of the most meaningful moments on a wedding day. While they are often thought of as something just for the couple, they can be just as emotional and powerful when shared with a parent or someone close to you. It is a chance to slow things down and share a quiet, real moment before everything picks up.
The best time to plan a first look is once you're fully dressed and ready, but before the rest of the day starts moving quickly. These moments do not take much time, maybe ten or fifteen minutes, but they can be super special. They give you and the person you are sharing it with a chance to take it all in without a crowd or distractions.

Pro tip: Plan your first look in a quiet spot with good natural light. It helps keep the moment relaxed and also makes for way better photos without needing to set anything up or move around too much.

One thing couples often do not think about is how fast the day goes. Once everything is in motion, there is usually not much room for calm, quiet moments. A first look gives you that space. Whether it is full of laughter, happy tears, or just a simple hug, it is often one of the few times during the day where emotions can be truly felt.
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You do not need to plan anything complicated. If it is a parent, they can wait in another room while you finish getting ready, and then be brought in for the reveal. If it is with your partner, we can find a private spot where you can see each other for the first time. These moments are not about a big reaction or putting on a show for anyone They are about being present, connected and letting the true emotions be felt.
If there is someone in your life who means a lot to you and has been part of your journey like a grandparent, this is such a thoughtful way to include them in your day. It can also help ease nerves and make everything feel a bit more real before walking into the ceremony.

The most important thing is that it feels right for you.
There is no one way to do it.
Just make space for the people and moments that matter most.